When it comes to dating (and frankly most other challenges in life), closure is a fool's errand. Most people won't even offer it to you, and you'll seldom get an honest answer even when they do. Controversial opinion: assume the worst, and use that as fuel. That is to say, if a woman passes on you, assume she thinks you're not on her level. Then, let that motivate you to uplevel yourself ❤️ #datingcoach #datingcoachformen