To avoid making thesame mistakes. 1. Being afraid to ask for what you want is a form of people pleasing. Choosing to be quiet for the sake of not stressing him over your need is automatically telling him he does not need to do too much because the bare minimum sweeps you off your feet. 2. When you ask for crumbs, knowing fully well that you need more or the present situation requires more is a pick me behavior. Pick me women don't ask for more or require more because they believe being a cheap w